The last time I was home I cleaned out my old closet — which had been used as a time capsule of my life thus far.
Bins and boxes full of old photos, diplomas, notes, books, art projects, and cards. Stacks and folders of school memories and forgotten sport t-shirts, birthday presents, and locked Hello Kitty diaries.
To be completely honest I have been knowingly storing my past at my parents house. This is not good.
It was exhausting going through everything.
Eventually I just loaded the stuff back in their respective boxes and put the lid on.
We loaded everything into my car.
Don’t get me wrong – I am a huge advocate for de-cluttering.
I try to live with this mantra -
“Remember IT. But throw THAT away.”
The thing is, I don’t know what to do with all this stuff! I don’t think I can throw it all away. These are my childhood memories, you can’t just thrown them away! Or can you….?
I saved a birthday present that my best friend Katherine gave me when I turned five.
It is a rock with rocks glued on top of it.
A rock.
With rocks glued on top of it.
I have saved a rock with rocks glued on top of it for 25 years!
It might be one of the best presents I have ever received.
Is saving a rock different than saving Caladryl lotion for 25 years?
What do I do? What do I keep? What do I pitch? Where do I put all these memories? How important is the tangible object? Can I just take a photo of it? Why do we feel like we have to save? Am I saving it for my future kids? Will my ‘future’ kids even care? Will I even care in 25 more years?
Oh crap. What do I do with all this crap?
















